As the time passes and we are stuck in this vicious circle called life and its mundaneties, our dreams and aspirations whither away and we learn to be complacent for cumulative order and to achieve an average happiness.
Average happiness is happiness when most people are happy and cumulative order is when most people can do what they planned to do. The whole problem of the matter is that happiness is an associative property. For one to be truly happy the people around him should be happy as well. Otherwise, its just not worth it. Thats why one learns to be complacent to attain some level of average happiness in his environment.
Only thing constant in this world is change. However, one never knows that whether the graph of happiness when change occurs would go upward or downward. When one feels that its going downward, I guess one can keep a hope that it will soon start going back up in positive direction. Also, most sadly, whenever one's graph starts taking a downward turn, a simple look around us, makes us realize that our happiness position in graph still quite up in absolute terms when compared to lows other people's graph has touched. Not a day passes by, that one does not realize how lucky and blessed one is.
With every passing day, we are only getting older, we can no longer be hard headed, selfish, brash and insensitive as we used to be. All our actions and words and even smallest of our expressions have consequences and people around us are effected by them. We have to be more responsible. We have to strive for a higher notch on average happiness rather than our own.
After all.. we must realize that people around us who love us most dearly are trying to do the same. Raise the average happiness value that is. :)
So.. we learn!
Average happiness is happiness when most people are happy and cumulative order is when most people can do what they planned to do. The whole problem of the matter is that happiness is an associative property. For one to be truly happy the people around him should be happy as well. Otherwise, its just not worth it. Thats why one learns to be complacent to attain some level of average happiness in his environment.
Only thing constant in this world is change. However, one never knows that whether the graph of happiness when change occurs would go upward or downward. When one feels that its going downward, I guess one can keep a hope that it will soon start going back up in positive direction. Also, most sadly, whenever one's graph starts taking a downward turn, a simple look around us, makes us realize that our happiness position in graph still quite up in absolute terms when compared to lows other people's graph has touched. Not a day passes by, that one does not realize how lucky and blessed one is.
With every passing day, we are only getting older, we can no longer be hard headed, selfish, brash and insensitive as we used to be. All our actions and words and even smallest of our expressions have consequences and people around us are effected by them. We have to be more responsible. We have to strive for a higher notch on average happiness rather than our own.
After all.. we must realize that people around us who love us most dearly are trying to do the same. Raise the average happiness value that is. :)
So.. we learn!
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